An Inspiration ...

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Before going to bed, I would just like to share a story I read on CNN.com.

In such tough times, it was really nice to know that there are still people out there that are selfless and such an inspiration to others. We need an "angel" like Jorge in every cities in America.

Thanks to reminding me of what I am not doing....

JACKSON HEIGHTS, New York (CNN) -- Every day, unemployed men gather under the elevated 7 train in Jackson Heights, Queens. Many of them are homeless. All of them are hungry.

At around 9:30 each night, relief comes in the form of Jorge Munoz's white pickup truck, filled with hot food, coffee and hot chocolate.

The men eagerly accept containers of chicken and rice from Munoz, devouring the food on the spot. Quiet gratitude radiates from the crowd.

For many, this is their only hot meal of the day; for some, it's the first food they've eaten since last night.

"I thank God for touching that man's heart," says Eduardo, one of the regulars.

Watching Munoz, 44, distribute meals and offer extra cups of coffee, it's clear he's passionate about bringing food to hungry people. For more than four years, Munoz and his family have been feeding those in need seven nights a week, 365 days a year. To date, he estimates he's served more than 70,000 meals.

Word of his mobile soup kitchen has spread, and people of all backgrounds and status now join the largely-Hispanic crowd surrounding his truck -- Egyptians, Chinese, Ethiopians, South Asians, white and black Americans and a British man who lost his job. 

"I'll help anyone who needs to eat. Just line up," Munoz says.

And at a time when food banks are struggling to keep up with skyrocketing demand, he's never been needed more. But for Munoz, a school bus driver by day, this work is a labor of love.

When I see these guys on the street," he says, "it's like seeing me, 20-something years ago when I came to this country."

Munoz was born in Colombia and his father died in an accident when he was young. When his mother found it difficult to support Munoz and his sister, she made her way to New York, finding work in Brooklyn as a nanny. At her urging, Munoz followed in her footsteps, coming to the United States in the 1980s.

"She said this was a better future for us," he says.

Munoz obtained legal residency in 1987 and later became a citizen, along with his mother and sister. He never stood on a street corner to find work, but as an immigrant, he identifies with many of the men he feeds.

Munoz began his unorthodox meal program -- now his nonprofit, An Angel in Queens -- in the summer of 2004. Friends told him about large amounts of food being thrown away at their jobs. At first, he collected leftovers from local businesses and handed out brown bag lunches to underprivileged men three nights a week. Within a few months, Munoz and his mother were preparing 20 home-cooked meals daily.

Numbers gradually increased over the years to 35 per night, then 60. In recent months, that number has jumped to as many as 140 meals a night.

Sustaining this endeavor consumes most of his life. To his mother's dismay, his family's Woodhaven home is bursting with goods related to this work. An oversize freezer takes up most of the dining room, and the porch is lined with canned food and paper products.

Daily operations now run like a well-oiled machine. Munoz gets up around 5:00 a.m. to drive his bus route, and he calls home on his breaks to see how the cooking is going. When he gets home around 5:30 p.m. -- often stopping to pick up food donations -- he helps pack up meals before heading out to "his corner" in Jackson Heights.

"He comes here without fail," says one of the men. "It could be cold, it could be really hot, but he's here."

On Saturdays he takes the men breakfast, and on Sundays -- his "day off" -- he brings them ham-and-cheese sandwiches. It's a relentless schedule, but either Munoz or his sister does it every night of the year.

"If I don't go, I'm going to feel bad," he says. "I know they're going to be waiting for me."

With the economic downturn, donations have slowed as the crowds awaiting Munoz's arrival have grown. But he is determined to do all he can to meet their needs.

Munoz estimates that food and gas cost approximately $400 to 450 a week; he and his family are funding the operation through their savings and his weekly $700 paycheck.

Asked why he spends so much time to help people he doesn't know, he answers, "I have a stable job, my mom, my family, a house... everything I want, I have. And these guys [don't]. So I just think, 'OK, I have the food.' At least for today they're going to have a meal to eat."

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Work Frustration

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With the bad economy and so many people being lay off   --- I should be extremely grateful that I still have a job. But lately, I just don't feel that way. I don't know why. Perhaps I am just tired of being on-call or perhaps I am not happy at my new company --- but I hate the feeling of having to dread to go to work. I don't know what the difference is that makes me feels this way about my new employer vs. my previous employer. *sigh* I only work 24 hours a week now (part-time) until the new place pick up more business -- and then they will offer me full-time position. With the way I am feeling now --- I don't even know if I want to work full-time there. I just hate the feeling of not liking what you do.


Jayden's Updates

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Jayden been drinking his milk from the sippy for the past couple of weeks.... Yeeeeah!! Finally!! =) I think this time he is **TRULY**  done with his milk bottles. The process was not as painful as I imagined --- I guess it was just a matter of time (when he felt he was ready).

Besides the sippy cup... we been giving him some "tough love" at night. Usually Jayden will sleep until 2am in his crib -- and then he cry for one of us to bring him over to sleep in our bed. For the past month, we had let him cried it out. The 1st night was really bad ---  he (and us) didnt sleep too well. He pretty much cried off and on until 4am. Jayden is a very very stubborn child --- so even now .. once in a while he will still cry around 2-3am -- but the crying has lessen by a lot. There are even some nights in which he will not cry for us until 6-7am.  =)

Between the sippy training and sleeping in his crib, we also been working on getting him potty trained. So far, it has been a great battle. We can get him to do his Number #2 most of the time --- I think I will wait until Spring/Summer to work on the the pee-ing portion of it.

Too Skinny!!!

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I hate being soooo skinny .... Nothing fits me well!! I have an interview next Tuesday ... so I went out today looking for a suit to wear. I found a nice one on sale but it needs some alteration (the pants are too long and too big --- the jacket is just too loose). I figure... Since the suit was on sale  --- I could afford to get it altered, right?! WRONG!! After an estimation by a tailor --- it will cost me $114 to alter my suit!!!! That is just ridiculous! The alteration will cost me more than the suit itself!!!

I have tried (in vain) to gain more weight ... but nothing seem to work!!! It is so frustrating!

Sippy... Finally!!

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UPDATE (12/7/08): Well... It seem like Jayden fooled us with the sippy. He didn't drink the milk from it at all the very next day!! =( Not sure what happened... but he refused the sippy. *sigh* I had to give in and gave his milk from his favorite bottle.


Jayden drank his milk from the sippy cup today... FINALLY!! I been trying to wean him off the bottles for about 2-3 months now. He generally will drink his water from the sippy or even a regular cup - but preferred his milk in a bottle. Because he was doing so well with just drinking water from the sippy -- I decided give milk in the sippy for a try again today. The morning drink went reallythebabybungalow_2031_153811195.jpg well -- he finished most of his milk (probably because he was so thirsty).

Because the flow is faster with the sippy  --- he is also drinking his milk a lot faster too. He is still not a 100% loving the sippy with the milk yet -- but I think he is finally getting there. It will probably take him a little more time to get use to it.

Next step -- POTTY TRAINING!!! Yikes!

The Cost of Water...

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Got a call from Skokie Water Dept about a HIGH water meter reading...  Lately I have been using the dishwasher more often, so I automatically thought that was the reason, but they told me it was like 5x the normal of what I have been paying.  They assured me that it wasn't the dishwasher usage!!!  I did some more investigations and ran back and forth between the water meter and A water source to determine what was making the meter run. 

I finally determined it was not 1, but 2 toilet flappers/washers.  They had a minute leak that came every few mins.  I am positive it was the issue because once i turned off the toilets the water meter stopped running.  Im going to run out to Lowes tomorrow to buy some parts. 

So everyone.. LISTEN TO YOUR TOILET or pay the price!!!

Sweaters

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I hate having to wash to my sweaters --- even with machine wash on gentle cycle -- it always seem to destroy all my sweaters! Either it comes out shrunken or the fit is never the way it used to be. I don't know how many sweaters I had thrown away because it either doesn't fit anymore or it fit "funny" after being washed!!

Anyone got suggestions on how to properly wash sweaters?? I wonder can I just take it to the dry cleaner even if the tag said "Machine Wash" ??? I rather pay the extra price for dry cleaning  than having to throw the sweater away after just 1 wash! It is so frustrating ... 

Catherine and Michael's Wedding

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The slideshow for Catherine and Michael's Wedding is finally up!! Please check it out!


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Bed-Side Lamp

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prod1233208_SM08.jpgI never realized how expensive a bed-side lamp can be until I started looking for one to replace our master bedroom lamps recently. The one I have my eyes on is from Restoration Hardware. I have seen something similar on HGTV and really like the look and effect of this style lamp in a room --- modern, simple yet still pretty classic looking. Too bad the price is not as simple!!



Prime Time...

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I am soo sick of the noise I see in zoom lenses in low light.  I bought a Canon 5d specifically to STOP the noise, but I haven't had a chance to test it out.  I heard it gives lower noise at higher ISO's.  The only real solution is using the larger aperture PRIME lenses.  Is it possible to LIVE on primes alone???  I think I might test my theory on my next venture....

Wish me luck!

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